"Papa kahte hain bada naam karega...."

Parents do have alot of expectations from the kids...i cant say this is wrong because they are the one who love us unconditionally[well are u sure ???..then why i hv to clean my cubbord..i have do it that too this weekend only..and i know my lovely sis wont help me a bit as if she is not even sharing the room with me..well i dont have any intention to give any space to preity out here...]so i should continue my topic..they take such a good care of ours..fulfill all our demands[4 months of nag finally paid me well] ...one drop of tears from our eyes just melt them[as if they will allow me to go to disc with my frnds...oh a little risky subject..lets not enter into that]..so so so...whatever i say..but i know one thing...that 'PARENTS JUST LIVE FOR US"... in return they just expect that we will follow all their instructions[oh..not a big deal..ahmm ahmm]..will show them report cards with lovely marks..uhhu uhhu.and choose the career of their choice..[or atleast a conventional one...ahha ahha...well i am having a lil cough..nothing serious...what you thought...???]...

This article is not for any nerds...whose mark sheets become headache for us...this article is for those,whose "Procrastination" is a striking personality feature... this is for all those dear and very dear friends who have alot of important things to do other then just worrying about the upcoming exams and still have to cover 60% of sylabus at 11pm,the night just before the exam..for those whose fav. author is not K.N. Bhatia,Manjeet Singh, S.Chand...for those to whom the thickness of Pradeep's and Dinesh's is enough to give migraine attack[sorry i am writing the names of all the science stream books...because i had commerce and i never bothered to buy any reference book for that...so cant name any]...for those who really hate parents teacher meeting...well the list is endless[but i dont want anyone to sympathize with us]...we guys are happy...in fact very happy the way we are..we respect the 90+ holders...but believe me we dont crave to be one...we are content with our marks[now i wont reveal that...whatever it is]...but dearest parents maybe wont understand...

A CREED FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED

I asked God for strength, that I might achieve.
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey ...

I asked for health, that I might do greater things.
I was given infirmity, that i might do better things ...

I asked for riches, that I might be happy.
I was given poverty, that I might be wise ....

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men.
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God ...

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things...

I got nothing I asked for __ but everything I had hoped for.

Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.
I, among all men, am most richly blessed!




-Anonymous

LETS FORGET RATIONALITY FOR SOMETIME.....

The most precious gift that you can give somebody in todays world is your patient ears...i had read this line somewhere...[i dont remember....anyways i dont think it really matters...]...but i had not really understood its meaning in true sense until recently...and now i have become " FAN " of the guy who has said this..after experiencing something like this in my own life..well thats why it is said that the wearer best knows where the shoes pinches.. indeed another a very wise man..[oh i guess world is full of wise man......its just me who was ignorant to this fact...]...Never mind JAB JAAGO TABHI SAVERA...very rightly said...[god i guess i was seriously ignorant].....i think its time to switch to my real purpose and share my experience ..and not making the list of the prudent people...where i do not qualify....

well today we all have myriad problems...at both personal and professional level and i presume that all of us are trying our level best to cope with them and solve them in our own respective ways...the least we expect from our fellow beings is to be a little patient with us and just listen to our problems...mind you just listen to our problems and offer no advices please....
Yes there are times when you are extremely frustrated over something or somebody....when you just dont understand the ration or logistic approach ....[or maybe you do not want to...] ....and at that time what can be a better shelter than shoulder of your friend and his/her attentive ears at your service,,,[well thats why friendship is such a bliss...] and at that time when your friend starts counting you your mistakes and gives you rational advices...{in which you are least interested } instead of supporting you ...well i tell you how you will feel....
You will actually forget the actual reason of your frustration...[or atleast that problem will start looking TRIVIAL to you at that time...] and that friend will become your worst enemy.

Advice for that friend : if you think that this friend of yours is making a mountain of moll hill....and his/her problem is very TRIVIAL [ in your words ].....then its okey that you dont support him/her...atleast just let her/him speak her heart w/o giving her any advices..[no matter how tempting it may look to tell her the rational path....or show off your intelligence..]...believe me she is not interested

This has been an eye opener for me too but then i have to learn alot...

just give it a try...

I am not much concerned about the things which are going around me...in my college... my society...or on macro level also
i am enough occupied with the problems of my life which keeps me enough busy to think about what is going around in the world...i am not following the Beijing Olympics religiously {by the way congratulation to all the winners ofcours}..musharraf resigning from his post is not tempting me to enter in any group discussions....neither i am depressing myself with the situation in jammu and the revolt from the secessionist group in Kashmir..i am not worrying myself to death for the 11% inflation{forgive me if i am wrong with figure]...but then what is keeping mee so busy.....i am busy{sounds great}....but yaa i am busy....i am busy with my studies for my upcoming exams...i am busy thinking how to reduce the extra pounds i have gained during my holidays ...[i doubt thinking will do mee any help in this case}...i am busy helping mom in her daily course of work..{as if i have choice}....i am busy scanning the market for something new to add to my wardrobe..[oh..i am loving it].....

I am the future of the world "the gen-next"...still how ironical it is that i am totally unperturbed by the things going around me...
well my argument is i am doing everything which is directly related with me and with my future...i am enjoying my life to the fullest and also in someway preparing my-self to face the challenges ahead ...without bothering myself much...about the things which do not interest me too much...and things about which i cant do much...
The world is defiantly not in its best of health today....with problems almost everywhere...and in almost everything...maybe the root cause of these problems is that people are not doing what they are supposed to do and are just interfering in others matter of affairs..well this is my point of view...as per my understanding and experience...if just for sometime people stop peeping in others affairs and limit themselves to theirs only..maybe some of the problems might get solved automatically.
I am no one whom you are bound to follow...but then one can always give it a try.....