i am sorry !!!

Life is all about ups and downs...but lately there has been more downs than ups
Past few days have been really a little low but indeed a great learning experience too..[with my sister continuously reading out the different extracts from Shiv Kheda's -You can win..[but then i have already devoted my last blog to that....]

Well this blog is a little different...an apology for my dear friend...
i am not a perfect person ..there are many things i wish a did not do....yes my dearest ritika "to err is human.."..and i am just a simple human being..[i dont want any contradiction over that...]..i have made many mistakes in fact blunders...and my past record shall confirm you that i have repeated them without fault.
You know i am a person who tends to act a little over smart attimes...speaking something which may sound a little cool..[without realizing that it may hurt someone...really dear...]...and whatever i spoke at that time was just pure fun without any ill feelings for you of course...and i had not really understood how hurt you were until i saw those tears in your eyes....and that really made me feel so worse.....that i dint had even had the courage to call you...and the discuss the matter with you....
"i am sorry" is the line with which i start any conversation these days but unlike Enrique i am not tired of being sorry...

i hope that you will accept my sincere apology and forgive me...
you are a very dear friend ...have spend some great moments of my life with you...[have shared some great laughter ...have cursed all the teachers together...have bunked classes...all gossips...everything...]i will really cherish all those moments spent with you for my entire life.... and still hope to have great time together in future also...so don't let this episode put a full stop to our friendship...and i promise you not to hurt you in any way in future
love

WINNERS VERSUS LOSERS

The Winner is always part of the answer ;
The Looser as always part of the problem.

The Winner always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says,"Let me do it for you".,
The Loser says,"that is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says, ''It may be difficult but it is possible.'' ;
The Loser says ,'' It may be possible but it is too difficult.''

When a Winner makes a mistakes, he says,'' I was wrong.'' ;
When a Loser makes a mistakes, he says, '' It wasn't my fault.''

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises.

Winner have dreams;
Losers have schemes.

Winner say,''I must do something.'' ;
Loser say,'' Something must be done.''

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;
Losers see problems.

Winners see possibilities;
Loser see the problems.

Winners believe in win/win ;
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential ;
Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat ;
Loser are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose.

Winners is hard arguments but soft words ;
Loser use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromises on petty things ;
Loser stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy : "Don't do to others what you would no0t want them to do to you" ;
Losers follow the philosophy , " Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make it happen ;
Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is PREPARATION.

rock on..off..on...!!

This tuesday i finally watched the much talked moviee "rock on..."[i am not really a moviee freak...but then everyone in my college was talking bout it...and besides the ticket was quit reasonable]....so how was it...excellent ??....ah..no...very good ??...not really....

okey...it was just a fine movie...i mean i had gone to watch it with loads of expectation..[after all..Khalid mohammad had given it 3.5 rating] but i was a little disappointed ...i will say that it was basically a bhel-purdee...of Dil chahta hai and Jhankaar beats..i know u all will agree wid mee...common...that kD [killer drummer]and that chikna..firanagii....that guy on the key board...cant recall his name...[nyways he died..dont know why...]..chit-chat easily reminds siddh and sameer [of dil chata hai...]...remembering their comparatively younger selfs where they were together and happy...blah blah..blah...[but it cant compare my all time fav. dil chahta hai]...and that arjun rampal's entry in last scene on the stage was typically so Jhankaar beats [anyways..i had not liked that...in jhankaar also]...i feel that the chemistry among the characters was really thandha ...[please dont confuse it to coca-cola]...moviee had no humour in it..okey so it was a serious cinema...but then what was the need of that.....???there was so much scope....and if you will say that whatever that guy..Purab kohli did was funny...then i am not buying it...he did the same ...as in any other film[cant recall any...]..oh but that zahreele zahreele...kaale neele peele...was a good try

But that doesnt mean it dint like it...i hav said..it was a fine moviee..so..then wat was fine...well well..Farhaan Akhtar was fine...infact very fine...i just loved him..he was...what we say...amazing...yaa...he was really a rock star...i loved his act..his voice ..and his house...[okey it was an art galarrey..but i really liked it]...that boy is really a multi talented guy..fits so many caps..
Arjun was a little depressed boy[but then he was supposed to play one]...anyways his hair was cute
both the girls were sweet..both had a good role..and they justified it..have long ways to go..
but then i will say moviee had nothing new to offer.....except farhaan akhtar...