First of all sorry for being so late …..i know u guys must be desperately waiting for my new post..(okey….if u were not waiting……fine…..so what…. atleast you guys can be a little tactful with words…)
Guys through this blog I just wanted to share my little experience with all of you…
I have joined a news channel for training ….so I do NOIDA thing daily…up and down….it is exhausting ….and but the worst part is…that it gets really late while returning…around 9:30-10 of night…
So what happened 4-5 days ago….is I was in Metro …and 4-5 boys boarded it at Rajiv Chalk…sat on the floor( just opposite to where I was sitting…)…Just by a single glance I got the impression about their backgroung…and standard..(common…its not that difficult…we all know)…they were cheap boys…with no decency…..and manners…or atleast their behavior reflected that….they did this Eve Teasing thing… disturbed me through their gestures…and I ignored it (like a so called intelligent girl)…..
The ignoring thing(from my side) continued for next 6-7 stations….and may be this gave the guy some encouragement….one of the them stood and sat neat to me …in that process…...touched me DELIBERATLY .
He caught me on wrong side.... I thrashed that guy right..left and centre…then and there…he apologized…his friend tried to act smart…I taught him a lesson too…if they would not have apologized … I woud not have let the metro run..(all I had to do is stand in between the doors….Big Deal…..) …
Well does that sound so easy…..believe me it was anything but EASY….it was not the first time that anything like this had happened..(oh aren’t we taught.. “INTELLIGENT girls don’t invite unnecessary troubles”….)So we start this ignoring thing ….(it makes me feel like a looser…)… I was alone.. .i was scared…but I had made-up my mind…and I did it….after the whole scene I realized I was Shaking….well both with rage (and….i have to accept….FEAR)
In this whole process two things really surprised me….which now makes me feel really ridiculous is..
1. Those boys, who made passes on me…and disturbed me for quiet some time…but the moment I reacted ….Unki Hawa nikal gaye….what a LOOSER they were….but then what we expect from those Son of B****..(sorry for the language…but don’t have better words for them)
2. And all the Co passengers were just the mute spectators ….no body said a word…(both the Thumbs Down for Delhi…)…but then this again teaches us that we have to fight our battle own our own…without any bodies help….
Ofcourse I have not mentioned this at home….for the obvious reasons ( the parents thing)…
But friends just a little message…Stop being INTELLIGENT…..act INTELLIGENTLY….
