First of all sorry for being so late …..i know u guys must be desperately waiting for my new post..(okey….if u were not waiting……fine…..so what…. atleast you guys can be a little tactful with words…)
Guys through this blog I just wanted to share my little experience with all of you…
I have joined a news channel for training ….so I do NOIDA thing daily…up and down….it is exhausting ….and but the worst part is…that it gets really late while returning…around 9:30-10 of night…
So what happened 4-5 days ago….is I was in Metro …and 4-5 boys boarded it at Rajiv Chalk…sat on the floor( just opposite to where I was sitting…)…Just by a single glance I got the impression about their backgroung…and standard..(common…its not that difficult…we all know)…they were cheap boys…with no decency…..and manners…or atleast their behavior reflected that….they did this Eve Teasing thing… disturbed me through their gestures…and I ignored it (like a so called intelligent girl)…..
The ignoring thing(from my side) continued for next 6-7 stations….and may be this gave the guy some encouragement….one of the them stood and sat neat to me …in that process…...touched me DELIBERATLY .
He caught me on wrong side.... I thrashed that guy right..left and centre…then and there…he apologized…his friend tried to act smart…I taught him a lesson too…if they would not have apologized … I woud not have let the metro run..(all I had to do is stand in between the doors….Big Deal…..) …
Well does that sound so easy…..believe me it was anything but EASY….it was not the first time that anything like this had happened..(oh aren’t we taught.. “INTELLIGENT girls don’t invite unnecessary troubles”….)So we start this ignoring thing ….(it makes me feel like a looser…)… I was alone.. .i was scared…but I had made-up my mind…and I did it….after the whole scene I realized I was Shaking….well both with rage (and….i have to accept….FEAR)
In this whole process two things really surprised me….which now makes me feel really ridiculous is..
1. Those boys, who made passes on me…and disturbed me for quiet some time…but the moment I reacted ….Unki Hawa nikal gaye….what a LOOSER they were….but then what we expect from those Son of B****..(sorry for the language…but don’t have better words for them)
2. And all the Co passengers were just the mute spectators ….no body said a word…(both the Thumbs Down for Delhi…)…but then this again teaches us that we have to fight our battle own our own…without any bodies help….
Ofcourse I have not mentioned this at home….for the obvious reasons ( the parents thing)…
But friends just a little message…Stop being INTELLIGENT…..act INTELLIGENTLY….
6 comments:
heyyy
i was actually waiting for a new post on ur blog....
thank god u finally wrote smthin.....
better late...
its very despicable & atrocious to hear dat even in todays world wen other countries r movin so ahead & women r equally talented & hard wokin as men....ppl wid mind full of shit still exist.im actually usin such laguage cause hearin all dis ,d feelin i get z really very elusive...i feel hurt,disgusted,angry......
just wanna say...god help those ppl....ludicrous z d only mot juste i can provide.
well....1 thing to say ...great going gal.
but yeahh...always do take care sweety....
v all care 4 u dats y sumtyms it actually disturb us too.
bt watever u did is very appreciable
keep up
love u
& keep writing
a blog...wd good message...i appreciate it.....welldone is all i cn say..both for ur writting n for ur courage...keep blogging
dear sweta
at first i'd like to mention here what came in my mind as soon as i went through this atrocious story what happend to u . plase forgive me if i'm going wrong in delivering my message as i accept i don't have mastry on english. so pls try to derive only what i want to say. yeah, ur story really impressed me & making me desparat enough to say that if it's right than thank u too much either i'm very sorry to say that these days all r going to be intelligent. as much u act intelligentlly one can do so much more smartly. so please, stop singing this type of rhetoric (i again say...if it ur mind's product because u have to write on ur blog, as u have already accepted, & what could be best topic for getting back ur reader's attention & stiched for a long time while u don't write this type of spicy materrial. i m really very sorry mam.)actually, after this all i also went mesmerised & will wait for ur next vision whis u use to see this world.
NAVEEN KUMAR PANDEY, HAMAR TELEVISION
hii,first thing i wud lik to tell u tht u hav that journalist wala thing...
second,wid this incident u hav to learn one thing tht always decide wen to act smartly and wen to keep quite becoz i think it can b risky wen u hav to walk back home alone as u rightly said tht both thumbs down for the people in d city and its 4 this reason girls hav to decide wat to do babes
but ya,its for sure WE WAT THE SOCIETY SAYS D WEAKER SEX OF THE TWO has to do sumthing abt it surely
tc
all d best
no weird comment dis tym u hv 2 rite another 1 4 it.......
bt i appreciate ur courage.....
donn worry i wud nt tell 2 ur or my mom or 2 ny1
wow!! salute to u girl!!!
those mother f******* got their lessons and even i witnessed one such drama in a blueline bus 4-5 months ago....i joined the crowd who thrashed the culprit to bits and pieces(it was so enjoyable to do so)....
the problem lies in our boys' mentality only....and also, the first act of preventing some pervert from eve teasing comes FROM A LADY/AUNTY ONLY.......this is a fact(based upon INDIAN STATISTICAL INSTITUTE's research)....Sick bast**** we boys are!!
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