First of all thnxs for ur over whelming response for my last post…thanks a lot for taking it in such a good spirit…thnxs peetu…nd ritzii….you guys are commendable….nd pragya de u r mind blowing…a special jadu ki jhappi for u…u guys are such a sport…Sandeep jee thnxs for ur feedback too…(by the way I m still curious ki aapki mujhse kya dushmani thi...)…So before starting this blog ….mein aap sabhi ko pranam karti hoon…thik ussi tarah jaise Ram Carit Manas ko shuru karne ke pehle Shree Tulsi Das jee ne duston ko (demons) pranaam kia tha…aur uske baad mein ‘bade dil ki Malika’ Laxmi Prabha Singh ka ashirwaad leti hoon....aur iss blog ke madhyam se mein nitish kumar varshney jee ko mubarakwaad dena chahti hoon…chappad faad ke aa rhe Placement ke offers ke liye … aur unhe shubkamnayen dena chahti hoon unke ujjwal bhavishya ke liye
“ …IN SHORT FROM MY SIDE YOU GUYS GO TO HELL….”…coz that’s the plce for you all
Ohk…so guys you know what a brat I am…I am the most insensitive ,inconsiderate, insensible and callous…ohk moron also….so you guys happy now…feeling better…I am self obsessed rotton girl with a big big mouth…hope now you are in better health….
So so so…yes I am all that and little more…fine a lot more …
But one question…why I am such a bad person…believe me because you people have given me the right to be like that…because I am your friend… so bear me with this too..
Friends... well the most beautiful word in this world…a pillar of strength…a shoulder to cry , a rainbow …clouds , birds , tyres , bhalle papdi…momos…engine, , dog- elephant, cat-rat …. ohk enough I know my readers are too intelligent to read such crap….i mean…we all know that those sweet yet stupid lines are for the SMS’s only to fetch mobile companies…millions and trillians…
So here we are talking about friends…in real life
Why we need a friend (I am talking about initial 2-3 months)…..so that we do not look like an idiot in the entire college…all alone…we need a friend to accompany us to water cooler or loo …to provide us notes when we miss the lectures … or agar kissi se lad lia hai to koi to chahiye saath dene wala….
god am I sounding like a super mean and selfish girl….easy guys…nothing like this…
Do a little bit of introspection…common admit it…if you have to think 5 good qualities of your friend…god it’s a tedious job…now just think whats it is about him/her that makes you pissed off….wow….there is a long list….
Maybe today the relationships are based on convenience and you choose friends by analyzing how that person is important to you from the utility point of view…
may be …..??? hmmm…????
Common guys life is not very honky dory…we have to bear people(FRIENDS)…we have to make adjustments…don’t you get pissed off coz he/she is too lazy or clumsy or glutton ...or probably too philosophical….too busy with her BF or too desperate to get one…wants to take more credit for that project in which you also worked equally hard…she is always into self praise...or has very strong opinions about every damm things( especially in your matters)…or ego clashes….everyone of us has a story to tell
Often you hate them…often you curse them…with the choicest of the swears…
Then why do you still stick to them …????
Maybe because you fear what will people talk about you when you split…or may be others are simply impossible to bear…and he/she is little better than the rest…or you think that it is okey to be in the bad company rather to be alone…
or may be…. just maybe you love them with all their imperfections…
P.S – it is a zone to face the truth and accept it….still I am open to contradictions…. if you don’t agree with anything general or specific…feel free to speak out your heart
11 comments:
babes...wht i analyised is tht...u tried to be sensible this time.....but....u failed terribly...
yaar kuch samajh nahi aya..wht u wanted to say.....
who were ur target audience
wht was the message to be conveyed
n when did it ended.........
chalo kuch to bolna hai....wese i undrstand ki at times u have to bear clumsy people(shweta mishra)but thn they are the one who makes u realise every nano second tht there exist people who take sadistic pleasure in irritating others..therefore ..it gives a sense of pleasure tht u r always still better...but its ok babes...i still love you
achcha shwotu....kuch mast sa likh na.......please...
kya likhti h...
Not ur best blog though....bt it really made sense.u hv touched the other side of the"frndship"....as unlike in buks frndship is nt always the beautiful gift of god in real life....so vl appreciate ur attempt to highlight the darker side of it
n the comments that u received here are quite ambiguous .. would like to know wat both of them has to say in more clear words.
no comments this tym.
lukin fwd for d nxt one.
i dont know lot about u first time came on your blog through orkut. U can say u r the girl thats why i visited u as a street boy. But frnkly i liked the way which u write here. I have sent u an invitation on orkut. If u feel u should join me as friend plzzz come. Your most welcome. plzz dont forget to visit my blog its www.mastanasafar.blogspot.com
speechless...kya likhti h...
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well written choti nepaln.but its nt everyone's point of view.i dnt agree wid u.but keep up d good work...
hey much awaited blog again , sory i've read it way back but unfortunately didn't get ample time to post poor comments .well as far as potraying the practical scenario for the friendship in the begining of the college days, amazing job done .u have quoted all the possible situations wich one cud rarely imagine ..so hats off again, but i differ in a couple of things, as in the criteria for selecting the frens differs from gals to guys ...as very well said by you that girls need a companion who can be with them ri8 frm goin to the loo to becoming a senior's prey .. but when u'll talk about guys then they generally make frens when they find equal innovative notorious activities in the other person , in short guys genrally attract with the guys of thier type . as i've seen in my case and a couple of those cases in which the guys are like me ...innovatively notorious lolz , sometimes it do happens that tough guys gets into very longlasting frenship with a skinny , sud (radio hansi ke phuware )type guys ....but it happens when that guys too have some qualities of driving the frenship .genrally i've seen girls actin in a selfish manner like apna kaam banta bhand mein jaye janta . but it generally does not happens in guys , the guys who have attributed with these kind of special feature generally dnt get good frens on whose shoulder they can rest .....may be im wrong ..i dnt knw but its all about givin ur views . BUT u knw one thing expressing ur ideas and showin the picture how people think ,looks sumtime awkward , coz attimes people dnt take it in the ri8 ways , but what ur doin is the strength , and believe me in every one lakh people only one can dare to speak practical and speak what they feel like .. thats why i must tell u ...way to go ,will not use the slogan sky is not the limit coz its pretty old and looks bookish as well ....
nevr stop, try to think in solitude , u can write better ...
and ya sorry at last coz i've tried to give my best shot of throwing the pseudointectuallism , but i knw i cud'nt get thru it ...he he he he he
sorry
keep rockin the same way .will wait for the next blog
(phen bhetab agla blog pe comment daye la)
shweta,i appreciate ur writing skill .......ur style of writing is commendable ....but but but sorry i dont agree with ur opinion...
after reading ur blog i have come to the conclusion that u have not got a true friend till now.......
i think u r quiet practical who make friends just to have gud time...bt u never get emotionally involved with dem.....
i guess when u vl find ur true frnd den u vl realize the worth of frndship....
nyways.......keep it up ..take care
yaar shwetu tune to meri mooh ki baat cheen li!!! m bhi kuch aise hi sochti hoo,ask preity!!!v shd nt make frnds just becoz of their utility!!! actually i have been victim of such behaviour.being topper i hav always been useful, (especially during exams) i always hav failed to judge such people bt kahavat hai na ki " friends in need r friends indeed"par ye need ki definition varies 4m person to person .actually frnds n any relation is 4 a reason n a season, so 1 has to go thrgh it, whether v lik or nt. yr style of writing is dam gud!
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